I hate to bag on a lot of my fellow females, but this week it has been bugging me after hearing stories about girls I know. I also decided to write this after some comments over the years about how I'm sooo bean to guys! So let's make my meanness even.
In the last several years of being completely single I've seen a lot things that women go through or do in relationships that just confirms that women are the weaker sex and men rule.
Example #1 HE CHEATS-YOU STAY
It happens all the time. A guy cheats on his wife or girlfriend and she stays because she lives him. WRONG! She stays because she's weak and refuses to stand up for herself. She stays because she really thinks he'll change. Or maybe he lies and said he'll change. Point is, she's weak because she believes his lies.
Example #2 YOU NEED HIM FOR MONEY
This one makes me want to snack a bitch every time I see some woman that just wants to be taken care of. Granted, different strokes for different folks. However, when you're that woman who has decided to let the man rule every aspect of your life and that includes how much money you can have. Then you have thrown in the towel and made yourself the weaker sex.
I can think of a girl I know that goes from guy to guy, from one serious relationship to the next, because shes a nanny and doesn't name a ton of money so she dates guys and then moves in with them so she has a place to live. Then when her boyfriend dumps her, she finds the next sucker, digs her claws in, within a month they're raking marriage and she's moved in. That girl is weak. Why because she can't do it by herself like a big girl should.
Example # 3 YOU LET HIM TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP
Every girl has a friend that they've had to talk off a ledge because she's upset by the way her man is treating her. I can think of a few myself...and a few times my friends have had that conversation with me.
I remember I had my former morning co-hosts in Milwaukee (Mathew and AJ) tell me that Mr. Dallas wasn't treating me very good towards the end. You know what, they were kind of right. But what did I do? In typical weak girl fashion, I just let it go on and made excuses for him until he decided to break up with me.
If I was was strong, I would've realized that it wasn't working out, that I should stick pup for myself and break things off.
Anytime you settle with being treated less than you want or more importantly, less than you deserve, then you are weak because you're allowing yourself to be taken advantage of and are settling.
Do you think if a guy had some chick treat him like shit that he'd sit there, make excuses, and take it? Maybe for a bit, but after a while even the dog that gets beaten, eventually bites sometime.
I'm not trying to bag on my species...just trying to open our eyes a little more.