Every girl has had it happen to her. A moment, when a guy she knows, or is in a relationship with, pulls what I call a "DICK MOVE." The "DICK MOVES" vary in degree. It can be anything from not calling the girl again, to standing her up, or even worse...the "ULTIMATE DICK MOVE" dating more than one girl at a time or cheating on her. My question is: Do guys ever feel bad when they look back on those "DICK MOVES" they pulled on girls?
In the last couple of months I personally have experienced some pretty BIG DICK MOVES! Let me see if you think they are, and tell me if you think a guy ever feels bad about it later.
DICK MOVE #1
So there's a guy that I thought was super attractive. Turns out he lives in the neighborhood and we have mutual friends. We exchanged numbers and he texts me one day asking "So when are we getting together?" So I said, "What about Thursday?" He then asks "Where?" Now, the first thing I was thinking is this guy is making me do all the work! Uhh LAME.
So I suggest that we do happy hour for sushi. There was a place I wanted to try and he was all about it. So, Happy Hour it is for sushi. The only thing we didn't nail down was a time.
Thursday rolls around and it's thundering like a mutha! I haven't heard from him in 2days and part of me was thinking he might bail on me, so I send him a text saying, "I know the weather is crazy, but are we still on for happy hour?"
HIM: Stuck at Work :(
HIM: 5:30. Rolling to bingo in heights if u wanna join us! My homie is moving into our apts that I'm going with. Roll with us!
Be at my apt at 6:00 Apt 456
Now the first thing that comes in my head is, "WHAT THE FRICK?" We had plans and he forgot and made other plans??? Considering I had a feeling he was going to bail on me my friend Laura and I were coming up with my plan B earlier which happened to be BINGO.
ME: Funny you say that cuz Laura invited me to go
HIM: Cool Y'all roll with us
HIM: Or not. See U there
OK so I guess I'll just meet him there...weird! I call him on the way to see if he was there already or if he needed us to save him a spot. NO ANSWER!
So, Laura and I get there and he's nowhere to be found. We look around the room and nothing. HE NEVER SHOWS AND NEVER CALLS BACK!!! What's even better, is this guy then posts a picture on Facebook of him holding a Sapporo Beer in his hand with a sushi menu on the table!!!! AGAIN...WTF???
The icing on the cake is that he deleted the picture the next morning! Hmmmm!
This guy is the one that wants to get together yet, not only does he ditch out his original plans with me, but then ditches on the 2nd round of plans!! How RUDE!
I think my favourite part of it all was the picture on Facebook. (Note to guys: You're shady...we will find you out!) That and the fact that this guy is supposed to be a good church boy!
Hey Church guy!!!! W.W.J.D???? I don't think Jesus would've stood me up for sushi and then stood me up for bingo!! I think if Jesus didn't really want to hang out with me he wouldn't have asked. And if Jesus had a better offer, Jesus would've called and said that maybe he needs a rain check.
I heard from him 2 days later and all his text said was "Tennis?" Needless to say I was a bit busy, and since then I've never heard from him.
DICK MOVE #2
This kind of goes back to my last blog a bit.
Go on a few dates with dude. Texting all the time. Rumours start that he is trying to pick up other women that I work with. Yet, he's still texting and talking to me. Then all of the sudden NOTHING! POOF! He pulls a Houdini and stops communicating. Next thing I see a few weeks later, Dude is in a relationship! That was fast!!!
Was this guy only trying to get into my pants? Was he with this chick the whole time and kept talking to me 'just in case' old faithful falls through? If this guy really decided that we weren't really a match, why wouldn't he just have enough balls to say, "Hey I think you're a nice girl, but I still have feelings for my ex, no hard feelings. Let's be friends." Or "Hey I think you're funny, but I like chicks with kids! And I want a family yesterday! We're just not a fit." Why not just be honest?? Why be a coward about it? We're all adults.
I just don't understand when men have this lapse in better judgement why don't they seem to ever feel bad. Why don't they apologize for being an idiot and pulling some DICK MOVE? Wouldn't it be better in the long for you to have a clean reputation than have it tarnished with women out there thinking you're a moron??
I would just like to know if guys ever feel bad for doing stupid stuff and making bad decisions.