Thursday, August 26, 2010

SHOULD YOU DATE/MARRY UGLY?

Have you ever heard the song that says if you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife? I'm not sure if people really live by that rule, but I sometimes think maybe I should.



The reason I say that is because I think sometimes guys that are cute, know that they are and seem to be a bit scadalous. Haven't you ever seen a guy that was attractive and you could tell he knew it?

I met a guy, and his friends were telling me that I should talk to him. I took one look at him and I could tell he was trouble. His was a pretty boy. He was wearing some tight shirt that showed off his muscles. He probably spent more time on his hair than I did that night. Not only that, but when I did talk to him breifly he did have a certain cockyness about it him.

WELL WELL WELL! Come to find out from a friend taht knows his freinds, the boy in question is scandalous! He and a buddy went to vegas the week prior, and apparently found 2 girls at the pool, took them back to their room, and switched off with both of them...if you know what I mean! REALLY???? Are you fricking serious? You does that?? Oh wait he does..and his freind. Stay Classy!

I just have to say that makes me sick. Not that I'm perfect, but I mean really!!!

I just wonder if every guy that's attractive is fricking shady. Over the years of being single I've met a lot of guys that are an instant, and those boys...get around. And when I say instant, I mean the guy you look at and he is an instant "WoW he's HOT!"

Don't get me wrong I know there are PLENTY of women out there that are attractive and shady. Although, it's a different shady. Its the kind of shady where she's using her look to get her something or somewhere. Where attractive guys use it to get the pooty! Over and over again.

The other thing with the hottie is that since they are so hot other chicks are always going to be after him and then you have to worry about cheating...and who wants to deal with that heartbreak?

8 comments:

Damien said...

Is this "subjectively ugly", where you find someone attractive but your friends/family wonder why, or "universally ugly" where even YOU wanna keep drinkin' 'til the "beer goggles" kick in?

Erin Austin said...

Ugly...like you're not even super attracted to them.

It's kind of like you're on a date and you're trying to figure oujt if you could ever see yourself naked with them.

Does that make sense?

Damien said...

O.k., got it. Actually, I had a blind date like that a few years ago. One of my friends set me up with someone she thought would be "perfect" for me. Unfortunately, her assessment was a bit off. In all honesty, her friend was very nice, but I just wasn't attracted to her, and she may have felt the same way. We all have different things we're attracted to.
While I wouldn't say that physical attraction is/should be the sole foundation of any romantic relationship, I believe it is a necessary part of it nonethless. I think that's just part of the "human animal" that we are. Then again, it can't be ALL about the looks. Beautiful on the outside sure doesn't mean beautiful on the inside.

Erin Austin said...

I agree! I feel like I've been in some relationships(not naming which ones) where I wasn't really attracted to them physically.

I'd really like to be in a relationship where I can think they look incredible with no clothes.

Damien said...

Erin,
You are so right! I think it's a natural and normal facet of most romantic relationships, especially youthful and dynamic ones, that we're physically & sexually attracted to our partner. Shoot, I'd like to be like one of those old couples that make other people jealous 'cause they still can't keep their hands off each other. Granted, deep and lasting attraction can still sneak up on you the more you get to know somebody, but I think it has to start somewhere.
Oh, and don't tell my boss, but thanks for giving me something more engaging to do this afternoon than work.

Zues said...

This is why light switches were invented.

Anonymous said...

what?

Kate said...

Great song! I've never heard it before but immediately fell in love with it!!
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