Have you ever met a guy that has a lot of girlfriends? I mean a lot! Almost like they have more girlfriends than guy friends. And are these girls really just friends?
Lately, I've met more of these guys and I'm noticing something about them. They don't want to date any one girl in particular. Is this a coincidence? Possibly. But I think of my guy friends in Milwaukee. They have a lot of girlfriends and are pretty well known for being playboys of MKE.
A guy that I met here in Houston recently has a lot of girlfriends. In fact, he likes to have them over for dinner and cook for them. He also will go out on the town with a group of them and he's the only guy. Is this weird to anyone else or is it just me?
He also told me that he didn't want a relationship because he wanted to do what he wanted to do, such as travel. I said, "Can't you do all of those things with a girlfriend?" He responded, with the typical I don't want to answer to anyone response.
Now on the flip side of the coin I also think that girls that have a lot of guy friends and hardly any girl friends are also weird. So, don't think I'm beating up just the guys here.
I think there's something to be said for a guy or girl that is only friends with the opposite sex. Almost like they need constant validation from the opposite sex. I love having girlfriends. Maybe because I'm the only girl in my family and crave the relationship of a sister.
Think about the girl that only has guy friends and no girlfriends. In my opinion, these girls don't have girlfriends because they don't want any competition from other girls and want it all the attention for themselves.
Now, with the guys, I don't think that they lack guy friends because they don't want the competition, I think it's more that the crave attention from girls and it makes them feel better about themselves. Look at men that hang out with bimbos. They waste their time with them because being with a pretty woman makes them feel better about themselves.