Thursday, September 10, 2009

IT'S BEEN AWHILE

It's been awhile...on several fronts. It's been a couple weeks since I wrote my last blog, and it's been awhile since I've actually dated someone. I'll get to that in a sec.

I may have mentioned that I went on my 1st date since last November. Well...I'm actually STILL dating this person...A MONTH LATER!!! WHAT??? That's crazy! In all seriousness things are going well.

Now what's funny to me is that I broke one of my dating rules by going out with him. I always had this rule of not dating a guy that had a certain profession. In my experience and that of my friends...I noticed that these guys had authority complexes. Meatheads almost. Even possibly sexist...BUT I decided to give it a shot despite my preconceived notions.

The 1st date was good...and so was the next. So far it seems to going well. (Although at the moment he's MIA...hope that's not a sign) Anyway, he's seems like a very nice guy. He even sends me nice little messages. Which is a HUGE plus for me. What girl doesn't like that stuff.

So I guess we'll see what happens..going in with a open mind and trying keep the heart open without any fears.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

As a certified instructor for "How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk", I am happy that you possibly found someone who is treating you with the respect you deserve. I hope you resolved your own emotional baggage for your marriage...so you are ready for a healthy relationship."Healthy people make healthy choices". We miss you in Wisconsin.

Trev said...

Do I dare say you sound positive? Ahh, such a nice change, Erin. May your level of happiness increase.

Rebecca said...

Well - you know what I think.... so far, I think he's great! You deserve all of that, and more. I'm proud of you for breaking not one, but two of your "rules" in this case.

Just take things one day at a time, and live in the moment... This guy isn't a Dbag - I can tell you that with certainty.

Best of luck in the coming months :)

~ Jack Daniels

Anonymous said...

So.....what is the profession??

Betsy said...

Erin

Good Luck to you, I miss you on the radio here in Milwaukee. Every once in a while I check back on your blog to see how you are doing. Take care and enjoy your new adventure!!

Anonymous said...

Is the profession law enforcement? Some of us are dying to know.

Megan said...

Yea!! Congrats and good job dating out of your comfort zone - there are lots of "bad cops" - but plenty of good ones too - you just have to find em! Sounds like you did - I'm excited for you! Still miss you on WKTI, but glad to see you have moved on and doing well!