You've always heard that guys like the thrill of the chase. They like a girl that's a challenge. Although, lately I'm starting to wonder if times have changed and is that really true anymore.
Let's face it. Times have changed since when our parents were young single adults. Most of our parents probably don't even remember what it's like to be single because they got married right out of high school. I know that my parents married young and were both supposedly virgins. So needless to say, the advice I got growing up was "Don't do it till you're married" and "Guys only like you because they want to have sex with you". Wow! Talk about having a complex when you grow up.
The advice girls always got was to hold off as long as you can because then, guys will respect you. Is that REALLY true? I know some guys do have this stigma that if a girl gives it up too quickly they think she's a slut. I actually had a guy friend tell me that if a girl gave a BJ or more on the first date that she was automatically out! Wait! Didn't you want the BJ?
Here's where I think the problem is. Yes, some girls are horny and like getting it on. Although there are some girls that may think differently. Remember the line that guys would use to get in a girls pants when we were younger. "If you love you'll do it with me." So I think that some girls subconsciously think that "Well if I do it with him...maybe he'll like me." I know that I fell victim to that line of thinking. I hate to admit that.
Back in the day, us ladies would go out on dates...several of them before we gave up the goods. Now days, we don't even need guys to ask us out...we spread our legs like mayonnaise without them saying so much as "Hi". So does the modern man still like the chase? Or has he become so used to girls that are easily coerced that they don't feel like they need to try? I even had a guy tell me that recently got back out on the market. "Erin, I don't even have to take girls out to dinner...they give it up without it! Boy, times have changed."
Do men enjoy conquering a woman's affection or is it like a lion in the safari? Imagine a lion waiting in the grass surveying a herd of antelope. The lion makes a move, the herd scatters and there the lion finds the one that isn't fast enough to escape. The lion finds the one that is weak and can't fight off the lion. The lion finds the one antelope that is an EASY catch. The lion likes easy prey. Do men like easy prey? Or do they like catching that elusive muskie?( that's a friends reference)Do men like fishing or hunting...so they can get the big fish...or the big buck that they've been waiting for?
Sorry for my hunting and fishing references but we are in Wisconsin.