There's a song that came out by Ciara called "Like a Boy" and it talks about all the things that a guy does to a girl. Only thing is, in the song the roles are reversed.
I can think of at least of couple of things that I wonder how it would feel to do if the roles were reversed and sometimes I just wonder what it would be like.
I can think of a lot of guys...actually...almost every guy I've ever come across that can have sex with a girl and not care. WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE TO HAVE SEX AND NOT CARE? Now, I'm not talking about random girls they don't know but, girls they are friends with or have at least tried getting to know. Guys can just have sex and not care about the girl. Even when a couple breaks up. He has moved on!! Wouldn't be nice to have the detachment? Do you what you want and not care!
How about when a girl calls a guy and he'll get back to her when it’s convenient for him. WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE TO HAVE A GUY WAITING AROUND FOR YOU TO CALL? Sure he may like you but he's got to do his own thing right now and he'll call you back when he's got nothing else going on. It’s like there's no sense of urgency. He'll just get around to it.
How about dating more than one person at the same time? WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE GUY ON A STRING? If a guy does it, it's pretty much expected and if a girl does it...well you know what they say. It's usually not very nice. Why can't 2 play that game?
Or when a couple breaks up, it seems that the girl always is a little more affected. I know that's been true with and some of my girlfriends. And it seems like the guys move on without even caring. They never cry about it or sit at home on a Friday night because they just don't feel like going out. They moved on before you can say "FRESH MEAT"!! For girls I think we have a period of mourning. I think I'm still in mine...hey I'm working on it...with guys, there is no period of mourning. MOVING ON!!! WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE TO NOT CARE?
I recently went on a few dates with someone and after I told him I didn't think it was going to work...a week later he was already getting booty calls from his "regulars"!!! AWESOME!!! STAY CLASSY!
WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE IF YOU MADE A GUY CRY? Now granted girls...we're sensitive but can you imagine if a guy wanted to see you and you canceled at the last minute and they got upset and cried. I can't even imagine. I haven't experienced a guy so much as missing me or just getting upset over me. Let alone crying over me. Sure my ex Sean cried when we broke up but I think he cried because he felt bad...not because it was hard for him or he was going to miss me...I think he just felt bad that he was doing it.
Just imagine for a moment if a girl could away with the stuff guys pull on girls. Funny thing is, this is only part of the list. I have more that I will share but for the time being, chew on this and tell me what you think!