I've written so many blogs about relationships, men, women and what makes us all tick. For some reason, when I write about this stuff it always seems to reflect on me! Here's the thing...I pose questions about things that come up in conversation with the girls or things that I seem to observe.
One thing that has really gotten my goat...is when people respond to my blog and say...."Erin maybe you need to stop looking for GQ models." UMMMM...EXCUSE ME!!! Do you know what my ex-husband looked like? UMMM no...you probably don't!!! Some responded with..."Have you ever dated a bald guy?" YES!!! For your information I have!!! In fact, My husband was not only bald but he wore a toupee when we started dating!!! Now if that's not love I don't know what is!!!
If you think my quest for a great guy includes a guy that looks like Fabio then you're reading far too into this blog then I even write.
Sure do I want a man that I find attractive!! Hell yes!!! You'll NEVER EVER EVER hear of a man that goes on a date with a girl and says that she's "OK looking" and he still wants to date her.....NO...He either thinks she's attractive or he doesn't...END OF STORY! Now does it mean the guy I date has too be that so called GQ model? NO...but I do need to find some attraction.
What else is attractive? I think a man that is considerate, attentive, thoughtful, driven, confident, motivated, funny, sweet, and has a great personality and attractive. There are other things as well. If I stay in good shape I want a man that takes care of himself as well. I'm not trying to be mean or whatever but men always want the candy on their arm....
I know I'm fired up right now. I'm just irritated at these emails here and there that think I need or want a GQ man...please...just know that when I write some of these blogs about relationship situations...that I write about "REAL LIFE SCENARIOS" and I comment on them from my experiences and my friend's experiences!
thanks for reading.