As I get myself out there on the dating scene again, I learn a lot!! Now to give you a small bit of background on me. Like I've said before I have a very limited amount of dating experience. I have no idea sometimes what's the right or wrong thing to do....soooo let me break it down for you. In high school I never had a boyfriend. No boyfriends in college either. Guys just weren't ever interested
Around 19 I started working in radio full time. I met a guy that my girlfriend at a different station worked with and that guy later became my husband. We started dating when I was 20. We married a week after I turned 24. Then we divorced when I was 28. After the divorce, I started going out meeting people. Met a guy...flirted...met out on the weekends but really no dates. Then I met Sean, and he was officially the 2nd guy I've dated. My 2nd real boyfriend!!! Gosh I'm a late bloomer!
Now let's fast forward a bit to the present. As you know I'm on MATCH. I've gone on a few dates with people. All of them have been nice guys. Nothing too crazy. They all have great careers, are respectful, clean cut, have their stuff together for the most part. Or from what I can tell. But no love connections thus far. Recently I met someone who is attractive, funny, is nice to me. One thing though, everyone knows who he is. I mean everyone. I've heard some rumors about him. Some of them are completely outlandish. Some are true, because he admitted to them. He was a different person when these things happened. I can respect that. He realized something was wrong and he changed those behaviors. BUT.....Now, I'm getting to know him, and people I know and some I really don't know want to offer up their info and opinion.
So far in the very short time since I've met this person. He's has been nice to me. Actually sometimes he's kind of sweet. Now does that mean I've let my guard down? HECK NO!!! I'm not a complete idiot! No girl wants to be the girl that dates or is interested in a bad boy and everyone knows it except for her....but also I'm not going to go off half cocked with every story that comes down the pipeline!! It would wrong for me to assume anything at this point and certainly not fair.
So ladies have ever you dated a bad boy...sort of bad boy...or a boy that people loved to talk about?
It's a new chapter in dating for me so let's enjoy the ride!