I often hear of girls who've had their hearts broken. Mine has been somewhat recent. Even though I do my best to move on it's still hard at times. I fear that it will happen again. That the feelings I have for someone will grow more and more over time and they in turn will just become more and more detached and bored.
It seems in my expercience, that when a couple breaks up that the girl is devasteated. Guys are moving on. If they have any feelings they either hide it because they don't want to look weak or go off and do crazy stuff, like shack up with girls, dating, going out with the boys and act like fools.
Now I will say, I have a very small amount of dating experience. I was a late bloomer for sure. In the very few experiences I've had I feel that the men were went along with their lives just fine. Never once did they try to get back together. Say that they wish things were different or that we were still together. I once got somewhat of an apology from the ex husband. He sent a text saying he was sorry for being a bad husband.
I know I asked Sean if he was ever heartbroken. Did a girl ever break his heart? His answer..."well it broke my heart when you told me you weren't able to go on that trip to Hawaii." WHAT? REALLY? THAT'S IT??? No offense...but I don't consider that to be heartbroken. I call that dissappointed and that's about it! I thought it was sad in a way...it made me think that he never felt a real connection with someone, or maybe he was good at protecting himself and would disconnect with a girl before they could do it to him. I'm not sure why there are some guys that break up with every girl they are with. Do they just REALLY know what they want or are they not sure at all? Do they just not want to be the ones that get broken up with?
I talked with a guy the other day and he said that if a girl were to break up with him he would just say "Oh well I'll just go and get with something else." I thought that it was so emotionless. Girls always try to figure out what happended and why we didn't work. Some of us dicesct more than others.
So do guys ever REALLY get heartbroken? (trips to Hawaii don't count)I'm just feeling that guys want to erase any memory or feeling? Shed a little light.