I've started to see a new trend in dating. Men no longer ask a girl to dinner, they always ask her out for a drink. Now I'm not bragging but, this has happend several times recently. Do guys use this as a way to measure if you're good enough to spend money on for dinner? Do they feel it's easier this way...less pressure? Have men become cheap and don't want to take a girl out for dinner? Or is it that men no longer feel it's necessary to court a woman?
With the few people in recent days that have asked me if I would go out for a drink none of them I've actually gone out with and met. The biggest reason is that I'm not ready. I'm not ready to start dating someone and go through the entire process of getting to know someone and putting myself out there.(I know...I probably need therapy)
Now I know one person was just asking me out for a drink because he was being nice. It was business. And in fact, he flaked out on the drinks. We never met up. So if was asking me because he wanted more he didn't try too hard.
The point is, I've noticed that is an interesting trend with single men these days and I'm not sure why. If you're a single man maybe you can shed a little light for a girl.