Tuesday, August 28, 2007

PART 2. DO GUYS BUY LADIES DRINKS AT BARS?

One thing that girls have always bragged about is going out with their girlfriends and getting guys to buy them drinks. this is one thing that I've never done. One reason is that guys never offer to buy me drinks. I MEAN NEVER!!! I actually for the first time had a guy buy me a drink while I was in Vegas. Seriously that was the first time that has happened.

So recently, as I talk to more single ladies they tell me that they never have guys offer to buy them drinks. I go out with the girls from time to time and guys never come up to us and buy us drinks. Funny thing is, I actually was out with a girlfriend of mine in St. Louis and 2 guys came up and started talking to us. My friend was being a complete...you know what...Just treating the guy like crap. I on the other hand, was engaging in conversation...even though I didn't want to, but I did. So what happened, my friend...the b-word..has a drink bought for her by the guy that she was ignoring while I got nothing!!

Why is that? Guys no longer offer to buy a drink for a girl. Does this fall in the same category as guys don't ask girls out to dinner anymore? Are they cheap? Are they figuring out if she is good enough for the drink? And why is it that the girls... like myself who engage in conversation don't get drinks but the girls who are the B-word to guys get drinks bought for them? Do guys like girls who are the B-word?

8 comments:

Pete Fanning said...

Since I don't like B-word's I probably wouldn't be the type of guy to buy 'em drinks :)

Anonymous said...

I hate to call BS, but I remember some drunk guy at a bar in Collinsville trying to buy you a drink... and what's this I hear - Shooter Jennings is coming to your new town!

erin austin said...

Oh that drunk guy!!! HAHA you're funny!!!

Danny from Milwaukee said...

Guys are sometimes hesitant to buy ladies drinks because they're hesitant to say "can I buy you a drink." That can makes a girl know you're hitting on her and automatically go on the defensive.

you can't handle the truth! said...

Guys don't buy women drinks anymore cause we all know too many women whose goal is to go out and try not to spend a single dime. You see these women at every bar, floating from guy to guy for the freebie! Men have gotten smarter, we are waiting for a woman to buy us a drink finally!

erin austin said...

Well men must've had really bad radar for years. Picking out those girls in a crowded bar when it's so obvious that's what their doing. Maybe guys should look more often to the girl that keeps to herself and doesn't necessarily look like she has to be the life of the party.

Anonymous said...

Would it be less on an insult if it was coffee (expensive coffee like Starbucks or Alterra)? Is it the booze that seems suspicious?

Anonymous said...

I would buy a drink for a lady but then I'm English so...