Tuesday, May 1, 2012
MEN SHOULD CRY MORE
Some people have said that I'm a "manhater" or that I'm bitter about guys. That may or may not be true, but there is one thing that I think would help the male species a little more...and that is crying.
I was watching "Dancing With The Stars" the other night and they featured a man that was a pro dancer but had a brain hemorrhage and wasn't able to dance, or even walk anymore. After extensive therapy he was able to dance again. His first "in public" performance was on 'DWTS' and when he finished he cried as the audience cheered for him.
It was that very moment when I realized that men in this country should bare their souls more.
When I saw that man on 'DWTS' cry, I almost started crying myself. I immediately felt for him more and felt as though he was more human. That may not make any sense to some, but so many men don't act as if anything affects them. And to see this man be so touched that he started crying was almost kind of beautiful.
Too many times things in life happen when guys just shove it under a rug. They show no emotion what so ever. Like when I got divorced. He acted as though "Next please!"
It would've been nice to see him kind of act like he gave a shit. Granted, he didn't have to act like he wanted me back, but at least he could've acted like that being divorced was going to be a little tough. Does that make sense? I just wanted to see that he kind of cared a little.
On the funny side, imagine if men started crying more all the stuff they could get out of it! Think of all the stuff that chicks get out of with crying.
For instance, getting out of speeding tickets. Could you imagine a cop rolling up to a dudes window and the guy is balling his eyes out? If I were the cop I'd let him go. Or maybe when your boss yells at you. If I were the boss I'd probably go easier on the guy.
Lastly, if guys cried more think of what they could get from their ladies. Maybe a little more sweet love making. Maybe a couple wouldn't fight as much.
This may all be a little far fetched for some, but if men maybe started showing a softer side and became a little more emotional, maybe they would no longer be thought of as dicks all the time.