Thursday, October 13, 2011
IF HE'S NOT SINGLE...HE'S OFF LIMITS
I am SOOO tired of hearing about these celebrities that get caught cheating with stupid women. The latest is Ashton cheating on Demi with some 22 yr old "twink" from San Diego via Texas. She sells her story to Us magazine and claims that Ashton told her he and Demi were separated. Is this girl stupid? Does she not ever pick up a magazine or watch TV? Secondly, So what if he's separated? Technically he's still married!
There are so many things that bug me about this story. The cheating is first, using the excuse of separation, the girl that's clueless, and the endless excuses.
Let's go over the situation. So you have Ashton in a club in San Diego. It's time to go back to his room and he looks around and spots this girl who quote is "good enough for the hot tub." Then she goes back to his room with a few of her friends and she ends up sleeping with Ashton. He apparently tells her that he's separated. She believes it and thinks that Ashton is unhappy in his marriage. My favourite part is when they wake up in the morning he looks under the covers and says "I just wanted to make sure I did OK." (Like he couldn't remember what he took home)
My problem with this girl is, how stupid can you be? Have you not picked up a magazine lately or watched Access Hollywood to know that the couple is still together?
The other thing is, she claims that if she knew he was happily married that she never would've done it. Really??? Give me a break! The point is he's married even if he says he's miserable that shouldn't matter.
I met a guy a few years ago through my gym. After my friend looked up his tax records we found out he was married. Do you know that he told me that they were going to get a divorce and how miserable of a person she was to be around? Needless to say, nothing ever happened between us. (thank God) What's funny is, that couple that was supposedly so miserable, is still married and they moved to NYC for his new job.
The point I'm trying to make is, LADIES BE SMARTER!!! Why is it that when a man is married or taken, women seem to find that guy more attractive? I don't! Personally if a guy even is "kind of" seeing a girl, he's done! I won't look at him twice. Yet, so many women don't care. Look at all the women that slept with Tiger Woods!! More than half knew he was married and didn't care. In fact, some thought he'd be with them! (SUCKERS)
I'm not sure if the women want to feel like they're helping the guy from a dark spot or if they want to see if they can steal him away and feel like they won. What is it?? Why are we so dumb?
So here are a few rules that I think every woman should know and live by.
1. If a guy says he's separated...don't believe it! Also, don't start anything with him till he's moved out and the divorce is final.
2. If a guy has a girlfriend...same rules apply. HANDS OFF!
3. If you wouldn't want what you're doing to happen in return to you...then it's probably not OK to do it.
4. If he says that his wife doesn't understand him, or she's crazy, or she won't have sex with him, or she nags him, or they've been unhappy for awhile...HANDS OFF!!! --All if it may be true but you don't need to be a catalyst for a divorce. If they get divorced it'll happen soon enough and you need not get involved.
I found this quote on another blog and it says a lot. "You want a guy who is smart enough to know that his marriage is over and strong enough to end it without any outside assistance. A guy that needs or wants to be wrenched out of his marriage is not strong or smart." READ THE BLOG HERE
I think if more women respected themselves more and respected other people's relationships (good or bad), the world might be a better place. I'd like to think that there'd be less cheating because more women would decide that they aren't going to be a part of it. Remember Karma is a bitch!!
I hope that Sara Leal learned a lesson from her lack of morals. Hopefully she learned that no matter if someone says they're unhappy there's always another person in the relationship that can be hurt by what you've decided to be a part of. Then again, she probably just learned that she can sleep with a celebrity that doesn't really care about her and then she can make money off it.
I guess the old bible saying can apply here, "Do unto others as you'd have done unto you." Also, remember ladies, if he'll do it with you he'll do it to you.