So I'm out tonight with the girls...having dinner and drinks. We discuss how we don't asked out and how guys never seem interested in us. We all have good CAREERS...we are self sufficient, pay for our own stuff, no debt, good looking, funny, not clingy. All good traits...or so I thought! And we aren't being conceited! FYI!
One of the girls said, "Oh guys are so intimidated by girls that have their stuff together here in Milwaukee." WHAT??? WAIT A SECOND??? ARE YOU SERIOUS??? Now I've heard that guys are intimidated by pretty girls...in fact, my ex-boyfriend tells me that I'm such a great package but guys may not ask me out because of what I do or maybe their scared. I always thought this was a cop-out. It was a way for us girls to make ourselves feel better, because guys weren't talking to us or showed no interest. NEVERMIND EVEN ASKING US OUT!
It's funny, as we all sat there we talked about how guys that are soooo not our type have NO problem asking us out or hitting on us, but the guys that we are interested in either just talk to us, never ask us out or simply NEVER call back. That is something I'm quite familiar with. HUMMM!
Anyway, just thought I'd throw that out there. Maybe a guy or 2 can shed a little light on the situation.