tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post4054209458734731142..comments2024-03-03T17:56:35.722-06:00Comments on ERIN AUSTIN'S THURSDAY BLOG AND PODCAST: THROWING UP MY WHITE FLAGErin Austinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18202243420976752377noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-2371939220188378882011-09-08T13:17:41.769-05:002011-09-08T13:17:41.769-05:00I'm right there with you girl. Dating sites do...I'm right there with you girl. Dating sites don't seem to have interesting people, or someone that I am at least interested in, and meeting men at a club or a bar is just set for disaster. <br /><br />Done it and tried it all - it does not work for me. <br /> <br />Makes me think one day I'll be that 60 yr old lady living all by herself with 9 cats and going to casinos to spend my money haha<br /><br />Joke aside, but I see why you needed to take some time off for your self. All this dating is tiring and it gets old. <br /><br />My problem is that I'm sick of having time off for myself, having time with my girlfriends, having girls nights,taking bunch of classes and anything that can distract me of thinking how lonely and pathetic I feel. And I'm only 30...<br /><br />Back to being the 60 yr old lady with the cats scenario LOL<br /><br />Best, <br />DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-61480243841354984892011-02-08T12:43:19.708-06:002011-02-08T12:43:19.708-06:00Erin - I met you and even worked with you briefly....Erin - I met you and even worked with you briefly. The first thing that caught me about you was your sexual energy. I couldn't stop thinking about you for weeks! I would have loved to make a move but the timing was not the best. I still wonder what could have been and how far it might have gone. Of course it is highly probable that the sexual energy was one-sided and you had no idea how you made me feel when I was around you. BTW- We talked a few times but you didn't seem overly interested in seeing if it could go further. I suppose our luck may be the same as our skills at finding a love connection. So sad!Davenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-28574169889603168182011-02-08T09:36:16.687-06:002011-02-08T09:36:16.687-06:00Hey Anonymous #2!!
Thanks Genius!! You act as t...Hey Anonymous #2!!<br /><br /><br />Thanks Genius!! You act as though I've never heard that before or thought it myself!!! <br /><br /><br />Clearly you missed the part in my blog where I talked about focusing on me. Or maybe you missed the part in blogs past where I said I've been working on me and my well being.<br /><br />Again another genius spouting off their half ass opinion when they probably don't know anything about me!!<br /><br />Hey but whatever, I put myself out there so I can allow people like you to cut me down. Thank you and you're welcome.<br /><br />EErin Austinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18202243420976752377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-25463132842715905282011-02-08T09:21:25.056-06:002011-02-08T09:21:25.056-06:00There's something to be said for the fact that...There's something to be said for the fact that if you've tried all these different avenues to meet men and none of them are going past a second date....maybe it's not them. In fact, it's probably you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-29496624285193138872011-01-31T10:20:17.502-06:002011-01-31T10:20:17.502-06:00See i believe things happen for a reason Erin and ...See i believe things happen for a reason Erin and now when you least expect it someone will come in your life that you care fo without event trying. I know ther is someone ou there for you no doubt. I wish you the best love and prayers from wisconsinstevennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-20109136333988349142011-01-28T07:38:37.710-06:002011-01-28T07:38:37.710-06:00It's strange.... I'm trying to think if yo...It's strange.... I'm trying to think if you're the age I was when we met. If you are, then my last date with Mr. "my eggs are too old", was also my "white flag" period. And not to scare you, but it lasted 2 years. <br /><br />When I look back throughout my years of dating woes, the guys I went out with via Match, or met at a bar, or a party, or even those I reconnected with years later...I sought them out after the initial meeting. And...I might add, I was still "looking to date", and almost living like it, as I was blogging back then, too. <br /><br />The 2 times in my life (count all of them now....just 2) when I had thrown up the white flag, and just "lived my life" without thinking about it, is when I found the two most meaningful relationships ever. One lasted for over 10 years, and the other I married. <br /><br />I do believe, there is something to be said about surrendering. I say, good for you! In my case, my sense of independence grew stronger - even, if you recall, when my career fell apart. You'll definitely want to have some good girlfriends around (or maybe not, although having you in my life during that time made things much easier, xo)...<br />And if you don't - take up another painting class...or start those self-taught piano lessons, ... you're already running (doing something for you) - so you're off to a great start! <br /><br />Good luck, sweetie!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com