tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post2836983805251764094..comments2024-03-03T17:56:35.722-06:00Comments on ERIN AUSTIN'S THURSDAY BLOG AND PODCAST: HOW DO YOU EVER FIND SOMEONE?Erin Austinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18202243420976752377noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-66460829294757666402012-08-16T20:43:51.597-05:002012-08-16T20:43:51.597-05:00You are not alone Erin. I'm 33, still single a...You are not alone Erin. I'm 33, still single and every day I think I will be this way FOREVER!!<br /><br />I haven't given up on finding Mr. Right, and really hope I do one day...but for now I am happy enough with where I am.AmazingGreishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15362341365639781121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-68633852462590605842012-07-30T00:31:21.659-05:002012-07-30T00:31:21.659-05:00"Just stop looking for it" that the last..."Just stop looking for it" that the last commenter mentioned is unfortunately what most people believe when it comes to romance. Real life isn't the movies. Fate and chance meetings, while great if it happens, is probably a long shot in real life. If someone wants a job, they have to actively seek it out. The same should apply to their romantic lives as well if they want a companion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-23701109466735622392012-07-28T10:46:36.954-05:002012-07-28T10:46:36.954-05:00Just stop looking for it! It will come when you ar...Just stop looking for it! It will come when you are ready. It will come when you aren't seeking it out. Be the BEST you that you can be and it will happen when you are ready. A man should never be the one to complete you - just be the cherry on top. Be happy and be you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-79933436105148493232012-07-27T12:48:48.382-05:002012-07-27T12:48:48.382-05:00When you are younger, lust overpowers common sense...When you are younger, lust overpowers common sense. Sometimes young people luck out. You occasionally hear stories about people who got married when they were 18 and are still married umpteen years later. When you get older, you are a little wiser, and maybe a little more picky. Some people I know have had luck with computer dating.Chuck Pergielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14473338620167201696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-78834815855519469162012-07-27T10:45:17.813-05:002012-07-27T10:45:17.813-05:00It is very hard these days - I feel your pain. Pa...It is very hard these days - I feel your pain. Part of it is like the previous post says - you may have been so hurt by your previous relationship(s)that you make it harder on yourself. I can say that because i live it every day. I have been divorced now for 10 years and have yet to find the "right" person. In the mean time, I have seen several of my friends get divorced and remarried within a short amount of time. Sometimes I ask myself what is wrong with me. I think it is a matter of "settling" for me. I am not going to settle for anyone that doesn't hold my interest, nor am I going to settle for someone that I am not attracted to - both physically and emotionally. I am far from a 10 and I am not looking for a 10 in the looks department either, but I am looking for MY 10!! I'm not exactly sure how old you are, but I just turned 40 and at this age, it is very hard to find that person...especially in this city. <br /><br />Just stick to looking for YOUR 10 - but just know, that your definition of "10" may change as time goes on. Don't try to find the same type of person you were looking for when you were in your 20's. You sound like a wonderful woman...be patient and always go out with a smile on your face - the person will notice when it's time!!!! Have a great day!Cardinalsfan71https://www.blogger.com/profile/12492237590968450012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-952849078738905228.post-66352617286363148202012-07-27T00:16:59.304-05:002012-07-27T00:16:59.304-05:00You sound jaded from the dating experience. Most ...You sound jaded from the dating experience. Most people in their 30s are though since they're mostly set in their ways a lot more compared to when they were in their 20s.<br /><br />Just remember though, dating is really never easy for most people. It's not just you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com